I have had a series of revelations over the last 2 weeks and I need to regroup and rebuild. Some of these are thoughts that have smacked me in the face before but I needed reminding.
The first revelation came during my driving lesson, I have now had 30 lessons and my instructor tells me I’m not ready to take the test on the 16th of June, he’s refusing to take me as it will look bad for him, he has a reputation to uphold. Though this isn’t set in stone just yet, on my next lesson we will do another mock test and I need to score 2 or fewer major faults. On my most recent, he says I got about 7. My youngest sister passed her driving test this week, we both started around the same time but she took a break so I think she’s actually had fewer lessons, most people have, I looked through my instructors diary, he writes numbers next to his students names to denote the number of lessons they’ve had, no one else has had even 20. I have options, I could pay another instructor £100+ to take me to the test but my instructor is probably right, I’m not ready, revelation, I’m not that smart, maybe I never was, maybe I never wasted my potential, perhaps there was just a moment in time that I was the tallest dwarf and that skewed my perception.
The second revelation occurred at my workplace, I have been thinking why no one ever tells me what to do, there are days when I work for around 3 hours, I make mistakes and nothing is ever said of it, I really do just turn up, get paid and go back home, there was a conversation I overheard a while ago about the new owners of the company making a push for diversity, it will explain why the last 3 people to fill a particular job role have all been black, it’s intentional, the guy is the only black in the department and I’m the only Pakistani. I am a diversity hire, I’m not paid to work, I’m just paid to be there, I’m not the fabled legendary one in a million Pakistani or the “Golden Pakistani” believed to appear one every century, white people aren’t nice to me because they can sense I’m special, actually, I still can’t figure that bit out but the takeaway from this is that I should stop thinking that I’m better than the Pakistanis around me.
I’ve also learned again that I’m a boring cunt without any opinions, I just consume and it might make me feel things but I’m incapable of forming criticism and analysis, a guy at work said he liked AEW wrestling, I was watching an episode at work and spent many hours watching YouTube videos on the topic but I had nothing to offer by way of conversation.
As far as my personal identity goes now, all I see a void, a black hole, whenever I think of myself, I have no form.
In positive news, I got the platinum trophy in “Stranger of Paradise: Final Fantasy Origin”, it’s not a good game, I do not recommend it. As for television, I watched “Man like Mobeen”, a show about a British Pakistan and it was OK. I enjoyed the Jimmy Saville documentary too though from what I can tell he doesn’t seem to have been proven guilty.